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SEXUAL ASSAULT SURVIVOR'S SUPPORT LINE & LEADERSHIP

SASSL exists to provide unbiased and non-judgmental peer support and referrals to survivors of sexual violence. We provide a 24 hour support line during the fall-winter semesters of the school year. Our walk-in support is available all year round in our Student Centre office. In addition to these services we also provide educational outreach programs and information sessions at York University and in surrounding areas.

Most sexual assaults are committed by someone we know. Whether it’s recent or it happened a long time ago, being at school can bring up issues about sexual assault. Luckily, the campus has several resources that can help you.

University is the perfect place to make friends and build new memories, but just remember: No matter how much you drink, what you’re wearing, or “how far you go” with someone,

NO still means NO!

Please note our support line will be limited to our office hours during the summer, from May to August. SASSL’s support line will re-open on a 24 hour basis in September 2015!

If you are experiencing a crisis, please call the following help lines that pertain to your situation:

 

Toronto Rape Crisis Line / Multi Cultural Women Against Rape

416-597-8808

 

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Transsexual, Two-Spirit, or Queer Youth Under 26

1-800-268-9688 (1-800-268-YOUTH)

 

The Assaulted Women’s Helpline

1-866-863-0511 

TTY 1-866-863-7868

 

Thank You and Look for Us at Events During August, like Frosh!

ABOUT US

SEXUAL ASSAULT SURVIVOR'S SUPPORT LINE & LEADERSHIP

VALUES

VALUES

SASSL volunteers are trained in a variety of areas to recognize the diversity that shapes everyday life in the GTA. We know that all types of factors influence people’s lives… READ MORE

BACKGROUND

BACKGROUND

SASSL was founded in 1995 with the support of the York University administration. The original motivation came from York’s Sexual Harassment Education and … READ MORE

VOLUNTEER

VOLUNTEER

SASSL is looking for enthusiastic folks with an understanding (or a willingness to learn!) about feminism and anti-oppression. Our volunteers come from diverse… READ MORE

FUNDRAISING

FUNDRAISING

In 1999, SASSL became recognized as an important presence on campus when York students elected SASSL to receive a $2.10 tuition levy. The levy is distributed across… READ MORE

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Do I have to be female to use SASSL’s services?

No. SASSL supports people of all genders, which includes, but is not limited to: gender queer/non-binary people, cis/trans women and cis/trans men.

 

Do I have to be a York student to use SASSL’s services?

The primary services SASSL offers are our walk-in support, in our office (see contact us for more details), as well as through our anonymous 24/7 support line. At SASSL we recognize the importance of anonymity as well as confidentiality. SASSL also hosts various events and workshops throughout the year (see our Events page for more details). With this being said, SASSL offers support to any individuals who reach out to us on campus. As such, many of our services are prioritized for York students however anyone is welcome to reach out to our organization for support.

 

Do I have to have been sexually assaulted to call SASSL?

No. Anyone can call, for any reason. We specialize in issues related to sexual violence, which includes a wide variety of issues and struggles. For example, if you have never been assaulted, but fear being assaulted, have a friend or family member who has been assaulted, are triggered by sexual assault etc. feel free to call SASSL or use our walk-in support anytime.

 

Does my assault/s have to be legally defined as ‘rape’ for me to use SASSL’s services?

No. SASSL’s definition of sexual assault covers a wide variety of actions that range from verbal/online harassment or threats to any unwanted sexual activity. We do not believe in a hierarchy of assaults where some types are worse than others.

 

Does my assault/s have to have happened on campus or near campus for me to use SASSL’s services?

No. Whether it’s an assault that happened at York, at home, or in another country, you can call SASSL for peer support and referrals.

 

Does my assault/s have to have happened recently for me to use SASSL’s services?

No. At SASSL we recognize that healing after an assault is a very personal experience that can take any amount of time, ranging from days, months, to many years depending on the person who is affected. It doesn’t matter if the assault happened yesterday, or 20 years ago. There is no time limit for being affected by an assault. You deserve support whenever you feel you need it and SASSL is here for you.

 

Do I have to be a feminist to use SASSL’s services?

No. We do not ask about your personal or political beliefs when we provide support. SASSL is an openly feminist organization, which means that we are committed to fighting varying modes of oppression in relation to the oppression of women and trans people. Regardless of any of our beliefs as an organization, our support services are open, confidential, and anonymous. What is most important to us is that those who call us receive the support and referrals that they need, not what their personal or political beliefs entail.

 

Feminist!? Doesn’t that mean you won’t support men?

No. To SASSL, feminism means a fight against patriarchal norms, which compose certain roles for ‘men’ and ‘women’ in a binary category of gender. As a feminist organization, we recognize that these norms contribute to the rates of sexual assault and the nature of sexual assault against all genders.

 

Cis/trans women and gender queer folks are more likely to be sexually assaulted because they are oppressed due to their genders, which is further complicated by other markers of identity, such as race, disability, and age . In stating this, we are not saying that men are never assaulted, or that they are rarely assaulted. Patriarchal gender norms assume male supremacy, and male strength, which makes the general public believe that men cannot be sexually assaulted. As a result, male survivors are often ridiculed and accused of lying. By fighting patriarchy, we fight the oppression of cis/trans women and gender queer folks, while at the same time combating these harmful norms that negatively impact male survivors of sexual assault.

 

Intersectional feminism? What does that mean?

Intersectional feminism is a movement that recognizes that gender oppression is connected to other forms of oppression including, but not limited to, , racism, classism, xenophobia, colonialism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism . This means that gender oppression   is inseparable from these other issues. As an organization we strive for intersectionality and inclusivity in our work, in an effort to help survivors who are marginalized for multiple reasons, for instance racialized women who are also cash poor.  . We hope to continually grow and change as an organization to accommodate more populations. Our aim is growth because we recognize that our services are not necessarily perfect or 100% inclusive. As a result we are open to suggestions by our service users.

 

I would like to interview a SASSL Coordinator or volunteer as a media representative/for a class project. How do I do that?

SASSL is an organization that is run collectively, this means that we need to develop responses to your questions together. If you would like our full organization’s response, you will need to give us your questions in advance, and give the collective time to generate well thought out responses. If you would like to have our member’s individual opinions, and not represent such opinions as organizational views, then we can give you the answers that you need faster. If your questions are inappropriate or in any way threatening, we reserve the right to withdraw from your interview at any time.

PLEASE NOTE:

We will not answer any questions that ask for confidential information. Such information that we will not release includes, but is not limited to: call details, survivors’ stories, times or dates of calls, how many calls we receive, identifying information about the people that use our services, and identifying information about our staff or volunteers.

 

SASSL has not answered the phone. Why is that?

Like any organization, SASSL has its limitations and failings. There are a number of reasons as to why your call may not be answered right away on our support line. One common reason is that we are in the middle of another call. Most other reasons are related to how our phone system works. At SASSL we are 100% student-run and student-funded. As a result, we do not have full-time staff or a call centre which could allow more than one person to be staffing the phone line at a time. At SASSL we have an office phone and a cell phone. The office phone is answered by coordinators during our office hours (Monday-Friday, approx. 10am-5pm). At night and over the weekends, all calls are forwarded to our support-line cell phone by volunteers and coordinators who take it home. Since everyone who works and volunteers at SASSL is a student, there can sometimes be scheduling conflicts which can impact whether or not the cell phone is turned on by the time that the office closes. Also, since our main phone line is located on York University’s Keele campus, we have been impacted by campus-wide power outages in the past.

If you have tried calling multiple times and do not get an answer, we want to know about it so that we can track what went wrong and why and prevent this from happening in the future. If you would like to report any such problems anonymously, feel free to fill out our anonymous feedback form under the section “SASSL Phone Lines”: https://fs12.formsite.com/publicitysassl/form1/index.html

 

I feel as though a member of SASSL has been oppressive towards me/someone that I know, or that SASSL services are inaccessible to me. What can I do about this?

Your voice is important and you deserve to have your concerns taken seriously. There are several ways that you can contact SASSL to voice your concerns.

The most anonymous ways to contact SASSL are:

1. Through our anonymous feedback form. Our form is split up into a number of sections,  and you only need to fill out the sections that pertain to your situation or complaint. You can fill it out by clicking the tab on our website that says “Anonymous Feedback Form”

2. Through our Tumblr page. Tumblr has an anonymous ask option which does not require an account ti fill out. Unfortunately, tumblr anonymous asks  have a character limit. This would be a good way to tell us anonymously if our anonymous feedback form is having technical difficulties or if you take issue with its format.

Our tumblr is: http://sasslyorku.tumblr.com/

3. Call our office line and do not leave a callback number or tell us your name

Office phone: 416-736-2100 ext. 40345

Other options for contacting members of SASSL that are NOT anonymous are:

  1. Send an email to sassl@yorku.ca
  2. Stop by our office Monday-Friday and ask for a coordinator.
    Location: B449 4th floor of the student centre at York University

 

 

Levy Opt-Out

Opt-Out Overview

There are a number of levies at York that were established with the provision that students may opt-out of paying them. This provision to opt-out was requested by the organization’s who receive the levy themselves. To see what fees you are paying, please visit http://sfs.yorku.ca/fees/courses/index.php and under the New Students category, select your Faculty/Program to see which levy fees you are paying and which ones you are may opt-out of (these fees are noted by an asterisk).

Depending on your Faculty, you may be able to opt out of the following levies:

1. Centre for Women and Trans People (CWTP) Room 322 Student Centre
2. Ontario Public Interest Research Group (OPIRG) Room C449 Student Centre
3. Sexual Assault Survivors Support Line & Leadership (SASSL) Room B449 Student Centre
4. World University Service of Canada (WUSC) Centre For Refugee Studies – 8th Floor, York Research Tower

These groups, together with Student Community & Leadership Development (SCLD) have created the following process and form for you to exercise your right to opt-out and receive this levy money back.

There will be one period during the year where refunds will be processed. The period is two weeks following the drop deadline for the F term: http://www.registrar.yorku.ca/enrol/dates/fw15.htm

For the 2015-2016 year, the opt out refund window will go from November 10 – 23.

To receive the levy refund, you must submit the following to each organization that you wish to opt out of:

  1.  Print out of timetable that is dated between November 10 – 23.
  2.  Photocopy of YU Card
  3. The completed opt out form available at the respective office Your form will be reviewed by the appropriate coordinator of the organization and a refund will be issued before end of the fall term.

Student Community & Leadership Development (SCLD) will, on behalf of an organization, accept appeals or deal with any other discrepancy.

SASSL’s Procedures:

At SASSL levy refunds are given in cash only. Students are also asked to come to our office (B449 Student Centre) in order to pick them up. We will not provide refunds by mail or by cheque. Levy Opt-out forms are available in our office, and in the following link.

2015-2016 Levy-Opt Out Form SASSL

We ask that you submit this form, and all other required documents to our office, NOT through email. At our office we would also ask you to confirm which department or program you are from, so that we know whether or not you are eligible for a refund. For a full list of programs that are eligible for refunds, please open the following document:

List of Programs that Pay SASSL’s Levy

In order to double check that this list has not changed, we as that you also look up your program at the following link:

http://sfs.yorku.ca/fees/courses/index.php

If you have feedback that you would like to give us about our organization or our services, here are the ways in which you can contact us:

Anonymous ways to Contact SASSL:

  1. Use our anonymous feedback form by clicking on “Anonymous feedback form” on our website menu
  2. Use the Anonymous ask feature on our Tumblr page. Tumblr has an anonymous ask option and you do not need an account to send an anonymous message through this feature.
    Our tumblr is: http://sasslyorku.tumblr.com/
  3. Call our office line and do not leave a callback number or your name.
    Office phone: 416-736-2100 ext. 403453.

Non-Anonymous ways to Contact SASSL

  1. Send an email to sassl@yorku.ca This would be a good way to provide your feedback if you are someone who does not mind having their email displayed to SASSL coordinators. This option also allows us to reply and ask for further clarification on the points that you address.
  2. Stop by our office Monday-Friday and ask to speak to a coordinator. This is best if you are someone who is best at face to face conversation and if you do not mind us knowing who you are.
    Office Location: B449 4th floor of the student centre at York University

Pamphlets & Resources

SASSL Pamphlets & Promotional Items

If you need resources such as pamphlets, buttons, posters, postcards etc. SASSL would be happy to provide. If you have resources for us pertaining to sexual violence and related issues we would love to distribute them. If you are interested in any of our promotional items browse the options below and contact our Publicity & Promotions Coordinator to see how many are available and how we can get them to your organization for distribution. To contact the Publicity & Promotions Coordinator, email sassl@yorku.ca and ask for the Publicity & Promotions Coordinator.

1) Pamphlets

SASSL has two types of Pamphlets: full-sized, and discreet.

Full-Sized:
Our full sized pamphlets (pictured below) were last updated in 2014 and contain all of our information as well as services both on and off campus.

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Discreet:

Our discreet pamphlets (pictured below) were created in 2015 and the contain minimal information about our services, but all the same information about services both on and off campus. They are small so that people can take them without others around them knowing that they are for services related to sexual violence.

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2) Posters 

SASSL has a variety of posters including four designs for our general informational posters (pictured below). If you would like posters that are event specific, please contact the Publicity & Promotions Coordinator and ask about the specific event.

SASSL Poster 1

POSTER 1 PDF DOWNLOAD

3) Buttons & Stickers 

Sassl has five button designs and one sticker design. The buttons are 1.5″ in diameter and the Stickers are 4″ in diameter. Both sets of designs are pictured below.

Buttons:

Buttons 2

 

Stickers:

Sticker 1

 

4) Pens

SASSL has pens printed with the following information “SASSL, Sexual Assault Survivors’ Support Line & Leadership, B449 Student Centre, (416) 650 8056 (24 hrs)”

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To pick up any of our resources come to our office in the Student Centre on York University’s Keele Campus room B449. If you are on York Keele or Glendon Campus and would like us to deliver them to you please contact Publicity & Promotions Coordinator by emailing sassl@yorku.ca and asking for the Publicity & Promotions Coordinator.

News & Events

Sexual Assault Survivors’ Support Line & Leadership holds a variety of large and small events each year in order to provide spaces of empowerment, education, and community for students at York University and the surrounding communities. Feel free to check the posts on this page to see what’s happening and when.

For more information about current events and educational materials, feel free to follow our social media pages:

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Yearly Events

HeART:

HeART has been a SASSL event since 2008. It is our largest event and we hold it yearly. HeART is an all arts night that is open submission often focusing on themes of survivorship and healing. We share art, we share experience, we eat good food and we enjoy our community together. We have seen the works of visual artists, musicians, poets, video artists, dancers and many more, expressing a wide variety of issues like racism, colonialism, sexual violence, gender-based violence, gender identity, citizenship etc. We have had the pleasure of hosting performers such as d’bi Young, Sun the Real Sun, Leah Lakshmi and many more wonderful artists. HeART usually has a call-out for artists about a month prior to the event and that is when people can apply to either perform or display their work. The usual time for the HeART event is in March so if you are interested you can email sassl@yorku.ca around that time.

WenDO

WenDO is a women and non-binary self defense course that is aimed at empowering people of oppressed genders. These workshops are normally paid but we have the pleasure of being able to coordinate these workshops multiple times a year for free. It is always held throughout the fall-winter semesters on York Campus. Follow us and stay tuned.

Tabling:

Like many other organizations at york SASSL frequently has a table in Vari hall, and at orientation events in which we hand out free stuff, educational materials and resources. Keep an eye out for us if you are interested in stopping by.

On top of our yearly events SASSL normally has different mini-events every year depending on who we have on our team and what ideas and resources they bring. These events can be equally as fun as our yearly events so follow us on social media to stay updated on what we have each year. If you have any ideas for events, if you would like us to support your event or if you would like to collaborate with SASSL on an event, don’t hesitate to email sassl@yorku.ca and ask for our events coordinator.

 

WenDO at SASSL

Every year SASSL works in collaboration with WenDO to run free self defense courses aimed at cis & trans women and non-binary/ gender non-conforming folks! In the 2015-2016 academic term we have been running both weekend and week day courses.

Our next courses will be taking place on Saturday January 23rd and Saturday January 30th. To register and find out the location email Sarah at smallevents.sassl@gmail.com

YOU MUST REGISTER TO ATTEND THE COURSE! If you don’t make it to this one, keep a lookout for our next courses in 2016!

WenDO Poster

November / December 2014

Monthly Myth Nov Dec

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This is the first of SASSL’s new Myth a Month educational posters. Our social media pages will provide supplemental information and additional statistics to the posters. A list of sources is available as well.

MYTH:
Sexual assaults mostly happen in the middle of the night. If you don’t want to be assaulted, just don’t go out at night.

FACT:
Sexual assaults can happen at any time of the day and in any given location. In fact, sexual assaults that occur out on the streets in the middle of the night are less common than assaults that occur inside, such as at institutions and in private homes.

This myth perpetuates the idea that it is someone’s own fault for being assaulted, and encourages the idea that a survivor, as opposed to the perpetrator, should take responsibility for the sexual assault.

Nobody is at fault for being assaulted:
no matter where they are,
no matter what time it is,
no matter what they’re doing, what they’re drinking or what they’re wearing!

Nobody should have to police their movements in order to avoid assault. This is both impossible and unfair.

STATISTICS:
• 43% of sexual assaults occur between 6:00 pm and 12:00 am
• 33% of sexual assaults occur between 6:00 am and 6:00 pm

This accounts for 76% assaults occurring during the daytime; only 24% of assaults actually occur late at night (between 12:00am – 6:00 am).
(U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1997)

This myth stems from the belief that sexual assaults occur primarily in the streets and other locations perceived to be more dangerous than private homes or commercial buildings.

“According to the 2004 GSS, more than half (51%) of sexual assault incidents occurred in a commercial or institutional establishment, followed by a residence or surrounding location (31%), a street or other public place (12%), or in another location (6%).”
(Government of Canada, 2008, para. 12)

The U.S. Department of Justice found that:
• 4 in 10 take place at the victim’s home.
• 2 in 10 take place at the home of a friend, neighbor, or relative.
(U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics, 1997)

The statistics for location of most assaults are further complicated when the nature of the assault is taken into account.

“The location of the incident varied with the specific offence type. More than half (56%) of sexual attacks occurred in and around a residence; whereas, over half (57%) of incidents of unwanted sexual touching occurred in a commercial establishment.”
(Government of Canada, 2008, para. 13)

These statistics show that very few sexual assaults occur in the streets; the majority of assaults occur either in the home or in commercial institutions.

Sexual assaults are not dependent on how ‘dangerous’ or ‘safe’ a particular location is. People being assaulted in their own homes and workplaces shows that sexual assault is a crime that is much more complicated than the potential danger of the spaces in which it takes place.

Nobody should be expected to monitor their movements, travels, or schedules in order to ‘protect’ themselves from assault. Sexual violence is an issue that is society wide; it is not the responsibility of the survivor to not be sexually assaulted.

SOURCES:
1. Government of Canada (2008). The nature of sexual offences. Statistics Canada. Retrieved fromhttp://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/85f0033m/2008019/findings-resultats/nature-eng.htm
2. U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics (1997). An analysis of data on rape and sexual assault: Sex offences and offenders. Retrieved from http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/SOO.PDF

January 2015

gender myth (3)

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This is SASSL’s monthly myth for January! Here are the supplemental information and statistics.

Definitions:

Cis: Someone whose gender identity matches the gender that they were assigned at birth (ex: a person born with a uterus and vagina who identifies as female in a culture where a uterus and vagina are equated with female gender identification)

Trans: Someone whose gender identity does not match the gender that they were assigned at birth. (ex: a person born with a penis and testicles who identifies as female in a culture where a penis and testicles is equated with male gender identification)

The term ‘trans’ in many cases also includes people who identify their gender on a spectrum outside of just “male” and “female” (ex: someone who identifies as gender queer, meaning that they identify as both male and female, or neither male nor female) but keep in mind that some people prefer not to be categorized as cis or trans.

MYTH:
Only ‘women’ can be sexually assaulted – men cannot be assaulted, and trans people can only be assaulted if they have female body parts.

FACT:
People of all genders are sexually assaulted – Everyone, regardless of gender, deserves to be supported.

Although the majority of sexual assaults are against women and trans people, this doesn’t mean that assaults against all other genders do not happen or that these assaults do not matter.

Everyone deserves to be supported and heard regardless of gender identity. Violence is something that can be committed against anyone, no matter what their body is like, who they see themselves as or what their other characteristics are.

Sexual assault is directly linked to gender oppression, and as a result, women and trans people are assaulted more often than cis men. Sexual assault is also connected to other forms of oppression, including but not limited to, race, ability, class, and sexuality. In our society, people who face these oppressions mentioned above are more likely to experience violence, especially if a person belongs to more than one oppressed group. This means that gender plays a major role in affecting who is sexually assaulted, however it is not the only factor to be considered when studying these issues. For instance, “two-thirds (67%) of homicide victims [are] transgender women of color” (National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, 2013). This is a result of transphobia, sexism and racism.

Power imbalances are almost always present in cases of sexual assault and other forms of voilence. Quite often these power imbalances are related to gender, which is why most assaults are committed by men against women (Information for Canadian Victims of Sexual Abuse, 2014). But, this is not the only power imbalance that exists in our society, which can be present in other cases of sexual assault. All cases of sexual assault deserve attention and recognition, even if they do not fit the norm.

Many people, for example, believe that a cis female cannot sexually assault a cis male, because of the belief that cis men need to be sexually aroused in order for intercourse to be possible. However, purely physiological arousal can be achieved under emotional duress such as anger, fear, and pain, even if the person does not wish it. This is true for cis men’s bodies, as well as all other body types (Greenberg, Bruess and Haffner, 576; Lips, 234). Forced sexual intercourse is also not the only form of sexual assault. Any unwanted sexual activity is sexual assault.

**Disclaimer: Due to the low number of Canadian Statistics available, some of the stats used here are American. The stats may differ due to the fact that Canada and the US have different legal definitions of rape and sexual assault, and different source populations to work from.**

STATISTICS:
“2.78 million men in the U.S. have been survivors of sexual assault.”
(U.S. Department of Justice, National Institute of Justice, 1998)

“In 2003, 1 in every 10 sexual assaults was on males.”
(U.S. Department of Justice, Bureau of Justice Statistics, 2003)

“One study on trans people found that 55% of FTM (female-to-male) and 68% of MTF (male-to-female) trans youth have been sexually assaulted.”
(Clements et al. 1998)

“83% of women and 32% of men with developmental disabilities in the study sample had been sexually assaulted.”
(Sobsey and Varnhagen, 1990)

“8% of women and 7% of men reported some type of violence by a common-law or marital partner in the 5 years preceding the survey. Of these, 20% of women and 3% of men reported being victims of at least one incident of sexual assault.
This is approximately 138,000 women and 14,000 men who were sexually assaulted by a spousal partner over the 5 year period preceding the study.”
(Juristat, General Social Survey, 1999)

“15% of sexual assault victims are boys under the age of 16”
(Information for Canadian victims of sexual abuse, 2014)

SOURCES:
Greenberg, JS., Bruess, CE., & Haffner DW (2000). Exploring the Dimensions of Human Sexuality. Sudbury, MA: Jones and Bartlett Publishers.

Clements, K., Marx, R., Guzman, R. et al. (1998). Prevalence of HIV infection in transgendered individuals in San Francisco. XII International Conference on AIDS, Geneva, Switzerland.

Information for Canadian Victims of Sexual Abuse (2014). Sexual Assault Statistics in Canada. [web log post] Retrieved from http://www.sexassault.ca/statistics.htm

Juristat General Social Survey. Sexual Offences in Canada: A Profile of Criminal Victimization. 23: 6. pp. 6.

Lips, HM (2001). Sex & Gender: An Introduction (4th ed.). Mountain View, CA: Mayfield Publishing Company.

National Institute of Justice & Centers for Disease Control & Prevention (1998). Prevalence, Incidence and Consequences of Violence Against Women Survey. Retrieved from https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles/172837.pdf

National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs (2013). Media release. Retrieved from http://www.avp.org/storage/documents/2013_mr_ncavp_hvreport.pdf

Sobsey, D. and Varnhagen, C. (1990) Sexual Abuse and Exploitation of People with Disabilities: A Study of the Victims. Ottawa, ON: National Clearinghouse on Family Violence, Family Violence Prevention Division, Health Canada.

U.S. Department of Justice (2003). 2003 National Crime Victimization Survey. Retrieved fromhttp://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/cv03.pdf

February 2015

stranger myth

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MYTH:

Sexual assaults are mostly committed by strangers. If you don’t want to be assaulted, stay away from strange, dangerous people!

 

FACT:

The majority of assaults are committed by someone the survivor knows.

Discussion:

 

Domestic violence/ Intimate Partner Violence  accounts for a large number of sexual assaults that occur in North America, and yet, when most people think about sexual assault, they imagine something happening with a stranger in the middle of the night. Every day in Canada, over 3,300 women (along with their 3,000 children) need an emergency shelter to sleep in to escape domestic violence. Every night, approximately 200 women are turned away because there is not enough space in the shelters. (Burczycka & Cotter, 2011)

 

According to statistics Canada (2013), 75% of sexual assaults are committed by someone the survivor knows. Of this 75% of assaults, 45% are casual acquaintances or friends, 13% are non-spousal family members and 17% are intimate partners.

 

Since the majority of assaults are committed by someone in the survivor’s life, it is unreasonable to ask them to stay away from potential abusers. Anyone could potentially be an abuser and it is not up to the victims/survivors to avoid the abuse.

 

As mentioned above, Intimate Partner Violence/ Domestic Violence accounts for a significant number of sexual assaults in North America.

“Intimate partner violence and abuse can be committed by a spouse, ex-spouse, a current or former common-law partner, a current or former girlfriend or boyfriend or a person in a dating relationship. The victim may think that she or he somehow provoked the abuse but the abuser is responsible for his or her own behaviour.”  (RCMP, 2012)

 

Intimate partner violence, as well as other forms of assault is experienced at higher rates by people in marginalized groups.

 

“… people who identify as gay, lesbian, and bisexual experience intimate partner violence at rates equal to or greater than the general population and initial research shows that up to 50% of people who identify as transgender experience domestic violence over their lifetime.” (GLBTQDVP, n.d.)

 

“African American females experience intimate partner violence at a rate 35% higher than that of white females, and about 2.5 times the rate of women of other races.  However, they are less likely than white women to use social services, battered women’s programs, or go to the hospital because of domestic violence.” (Women of Colour Network, 2006)

 

“Not only were Aboriginal women more likely than non-Aboriginal women to report experiences of violence and injury in spousal relationships, they were also more likely to report other forms of abuse by their spouse.” (Statistics Canada, 2009)

 

**Disclaimer: Due to the limited number of Canadian sources available, some of the sources used here are American. The stats may differ due to the fact that Canada and the US have different legal definitions of rape and sexual assault, and different source populations to work from.**

 

SOURCES

Burczycka, Marta & Cotter, Adam (2011) Shelters for Abuse Women in Canada, 2010. Statistics Canada. Retrieved from http://www.statcan.gc.ca/pub/85-002-x/2011001/article/11495-eng.htm

 

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